MY SPOUSE AND I
Why do I want a husband/wife? Why do I want to get married?
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Do I intend to think about my husband or wife every day?
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Do I plan to do nice gestures for my husband/wife? What kind?
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What would my boyfriend/girlfriend like me to do or how would he/she like me to address him/her?
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What would I like my husband/wife to do for me?
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How do I plan to address my husband/wife?
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How does my potential husband/wife currently address me?
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How do I want my husband/wife to address me?
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How much time do I plan to spend with my husband/wife?
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Am I considering working away from home and family?
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How would I like to spend time with my husband/wife?
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What do I expect from my husband/wife regarding meal preparation?
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What do I expect from my husband/wife concerning home arrangements, renovations, and minor repairs?
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Who would be responsible for cleaning the house? What do I consider weekly cleaning and daily tidying?
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Is it okay for my husband/wife to have an affair?
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Is it only my business if I engage in casual sex outside of marriage?
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Is it okay if I have an affair?
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Do I already have an affair?
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Have I had an affair outside of our relationship during our relationship?
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Do I think that getting married will change me?
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Do I want to be a good husband/wife?
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Will I work on being a good husband/wife? How?
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Am I already planning to change something about my husband/wife right after marriage?
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Have I ever succeeded in changing someone’s character, thinking, or behavior?
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What do I dislike about my fiancé(e)?
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What nice things does my fiancé(e) do for me? How often?
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What unpleasant things does my fiancé(e) do for me? How often?
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Will you stay with your husband/wife if you find out he/she is incurably ill (e.g., mentally)?
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Will you stay with your husband/wife if he/she has an accident and loses physical attractiveness?
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Have I talked about my fiancé(e) with his/her friends?
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Do I like my husband’s/wife’s friends? Who among them would I like to meet, and who would I not?
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Do I give in to my fiancé(e) on important matters to avoid losing him/her? What matters are these?
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Do I know my fiancé(e)’s relationship history?
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Are there currently issues that trouble me but I don’t talk about them with my fiancé(e)?
Do I think I can change?
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Am I envious of something my boyfriend/girlfriend has?
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What is my boyfriend’s/girlfriend’s physical health like?
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What is my boyfriend’s/girlfriend’s mental health like?
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What is my physical health like?
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What is my mental health like?
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If you had an accident and were already married, would he/she leave you?
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Do you think one should tolerate everything that one’s husband or wife does?
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What nice things can a husband do for his wife?
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What nice things can a wife do for her husband?
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Should my husband/wife be someone for whom it’s worth living?